Parents usually think they’re the ones who give, and kids are the ones who receive. And it’s only fair to give credit where credit is due: Parents do a lot for their children. They provide a home, food, care, and education for their children, creating a safe and supportive environment.

While children may not be able to repay everything their parents do for them, their presence contributes to the family in meaningful ways. It’s not just a one-way street. In fact, without children, the specific role and identity of being a parent wouldn’t exist, a role that comes with a certain social status, authority, and a sense of purpose, accomplishment and significance. Parents assume a crucial position in shaping the next generation. So, it’s not just about parents giving and children taking.

If parents made a conscious effort to treat their children as equals and fellow human beings, the approach would shift the traditional parent-child dynamic

Children bring new perspectives, curiosity, and spontaneity to the family dynamic. Their openness to the world can encourage parents to re-evaluate their maybe established, rigid perspectives, allowing for personal growth and flow as the parents learn to approach life in a more flexible and open-minded way.

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If parents made a conscious effort to treat their children as equals and fellow human beings, the approach would shift the traditional parent-child dynamic away from a hierarchical structure toward a more collaborative and respectful relationship, benefiting the child’s self-esteem and the family harmony.

In short, by treating children with respect as fellow human beings, parents nurture a relationship based on equality, understanding, and support, improving the well-being and growth of both parents and children.

Yours,
cue [kjuː] & ljs [eldʒeɪˈes]

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